Before we had kids, we were up at the cabin and there was this near death experience book that I was reading. We had been dealing with infertility for a couple of years and at that point I had been begging Regan to just adopt. He had always wanted to adopt, that wasn't the issue but like many couples he wanted his 1st born to be biological and then adopt down the road. We both laugh about how silly it was now that we know biology makes absolutely no difference. So now back to the book. I read that with adoption it can sometimes be that a deceased loved one or a loved one on the other side has such a special bond with someone that they ask them to become part of their family. I don't know if it is even true but when I told Regan that, he paused then looked at me and said, "Ok, lets get going on adoption."We were both thinking of his brother or maybe his sister that had passed, would maybe play the role in helping us find the baby that was meant for our home. I'm sure that is why Regan had such a sudden change of heart. So time went on and we got our little Skye. The story from the book would come up from time to time, especially because Skye loved Ryan when she was a baby. She would always put her hands on his face and just stare at him. So we assumed it was because Ryan looks so much like their brother Randall who passed away and maybe just maybe he played a part in bringing Skye into our family. Then almost a year ago, Skye told me that we were going to have a baby brother and that my belly was going to fill up again. I have to admit, it freaked me out a little bit. I thought for sure something was going to be wrong with him. I kept thinking why did she need to know that he was coming, there has got to be something about him that she needs to prepare herself for. I was freaked out about it up until his birth. To my relief he is a perfectly healthy and very cute baby boy. When we brought Tyke home, Skye would not leave him alone and she still doesn't. She is constantly walking over to him and kissing or rubbing his head. I'm constantly telling her to leave him alone and let him sleep. Then I started noticing something as he got a little older and more alert. He is as crazy about her as she is him. He gets excited when he sees her face. His arms start go a mile a minute when she talks to him. He always coos to her and just stares at her with a look that I can't even describe. So I have now come to my own conclusion and I might be totally up in the night, but I think it was Tyke that made sure Skye came to us. Maybe that is why he came to let her know that he was coming. Maybe he was just excited to tell his dear friend that they would be together again soon. Whether I am right or completely off my rocker...It's food for thought and there is no doubt about the special bond they share.
